To add to this, perhaps companions should only initiate flirting if you match their preferences. Otherwise, the player would need to initiate flirting. This would also help address the oddity where ~every companion asks you for sex on the same night. With this method, only 1 or 2 companions would directly ask you for sex; you'd have to ask the other ones.
I mean ... i really dont see any problem with the fact that they are proposing all at once ... as i mentioned earlier, situation is just right. O_o
Especialy if that, was was mentioned before around here ... that Larian somewhere confrimmed that they will focus for more interaction.
On the other hand ...
It would make sense that companions should not initiate any romance, unless you match at least one of two conditions ...
On the third hand (and yes, its curious how many hands i have) ...
It also makes sense to me that companions should take initiative, if we do not ...
So, sumarized ...
IF! We really get more interactions ... and there will be some flirt talking ... and companions will initiate some flirt talking ... and we will have options to refuse them ... AND!! ANOTHER IF!! Some companions will try that again (yes, looking at you, Astarion

) at *that night* ...
I presume it would be good outcome.
