Wow, what an odd topic. Im with the people who think its wierd to gossip about people on a forum. It seems so.......pointless and petty. The good thing about the net is you can be so upfront and honest. Why then go wandering around behind someones back saying things?. Just say it to them.
From my conversations with Kiya I can definatly say she is honest, I dont always agree with her, but at least I know she has told me what she really truly feels/thinks. As for the using people, how is it even possible to do that online? An example would be good 'cause I really dont understand.
Anyway, thats my two cents worth.