Yeah, I have said it before, Minthara's 'romance' goes from 0 to 100 real fast. Considering you can trigger the grove siege in your first conversation with her super easy, and the 'party' happens later that same day...Minthara knows you for a few hours at best. None of the Romances are what I'd call a 'slow burn' right now, except perhaps Shadowheart and maybe Laezel, but Minthara can be straight up racist towards you- 'grotesque Darthiir' etc, lusting after you a few hours later (fair enough, drow do casual hookups and I guess you did prove yourself in the fighting to get noticed) to falling head over heels in love with you and basically asking you to marry her by the end of the day. I really wish it was more drawn out, because while the drow has her charms, as a romance it could really do with some more content in between meeting her and her declaring her love for you.

And as Niara pointed out in their thread, the sex scene itself is not exactly great. Rather porny with none of the 'drow dom' stuff that it seemed to promise on the tin.