Not at all ...
I mean you are like 2meters away from each other. :-/
When you talk with Shadowheart, Lae'zel know that you have promised to go with her.
Lae'zel and Shadow are each on one side of the camp.
Cant say im surprised someone take it litteraly ... nor even by that it was you. -_-
So especialy for you:
Still close enought to figure out what is going on even without a tadpole.
Also especialy for theese two, you might notice that they OFTEN both disagree just for seeing you talking with other one.