What they really need is probably to hire a sex positive professional dominatrix, [... or ...] fire up some Bettie Page for examples of something that has had enduring and pretty classic XXX appeal regardless of orientation
I think the idea of getting insight from a professional dom if they want to do right by Minthara is an excellent idea. I disagree with the second, though, because Bettie Page is still by-men-for-men, and when she stopped hanging out with the folks who were making the pictures, she wanted nothing at all to do with that scene. Props on the talent that made enduring images, but I don't think one can point to it as a model for non-male-gaze-erotica
