You know what? All the more reason why we need more of a Non-sexual option for romances. If it is true that everyone is sharing the experiences, then I need a romance option in this game that doesn't include a romp in the sack, and that, ultimately, is what I want. I don't want the romances to be forced zero to 60 for each one only to learn we're all sharing the sexual experiences. I want to be able to say, "I care deeply, but until we're cured, let's just spend some time together.
