I'm sorry but you sound selfish there. So, screw everyone else because the game has to be made YOUR way?
That can be applied to anyone asking for anything, no? Ideally a game would allow for variety of difficulties and variety of options that would satisfy anyone but it's not as simple as that. At best devs can polish 1-2 difficulty settings, and definitely can't design a game that will work with clockwork precision for variety of toggles/optional mechanics. So it is only logical for everyone want for the game to be designed for them, with optional toggles for the other riffraff.