Ok. I understand what you're saying, Lady A, and I realize that. I do. I also do respect them as DM, whether it seems like it or not.
But they're asking for feedback from their players, which any good DM should do.
And my feedback is: Please don't nerf enemies and please make the game more realistic by removing a lot of the unrealistic homebrew, and make the classes and monsters unique again by giving them back their proper stats, and please create better ambiance with day/night, and please remove all the rays of sunlight in places that are dark, such as the Underdark, and all the other things that we've been suggesting.