Except it's also not. From the writer's perspective, I get it. What are they supposed to do? It's a hot-button issue. While I love storytelling that allows for conflict and immersion, it's easier to just say all the characters are playersexual and avoid any arguments that might otherwise arise.
Take Race tag under concideration and write at least one more line that would be fiting other options?
I mean in case of Minthara it dont even seem so hard ...
She would say to Drow that she would take her as consort to Menzoberranzan.
She would say to everyone else that she would keep her close for rest of her days.
The message is practicaly the same, but it dont conflict any specific.
