I don't think anyone is suggesting to remove stealth or attacking from stealth here.
It actually takes the fun out of playing a stealthy assassin when it's ridiculously OP and too easy. I would love to play a stealth character in BG3 but the way it plays is just stupid and cheesy.
My problem with playing a stealthy character is that everybody's stealthy. It's like, what's the point of having the stealth skill? If I'm in the red, they see me. If I'm not, they don't.
I'd love to make a stealthy and play through the game carefully, but that's basically the same thing as making a clumsy fighter in half plate right now.