You are absolutely right.
The level of exaggeration about how bad Shove is has reached a comical level, in my opinion. It's not unbalanced or game breaking.
To listen to some of these folks, I'm surprised they ever finished getting off the Nautiloid, much less defeating Nere.
Of course, in my opinion, the anti-shove stuff is all nosebleed hyperbole and rhetoric.
You're making this unnecessarily tribal. Please don't.