I have the same feelings!
The immersion as it was before is completely lost to me. Almost everything is kinda weird - the angle, which is too far behind a shoulder, the facial expressions, which I can't properly distinguish anymore, the feeling of suspense and mystery has gone as well. Of course, I've played the game several times by now but if I were a new player, unfamiliar with what is going to happen, I would feel kinda disappointed seeing like in broad daylight who is coming to have a bite of my character.
The fact that they cut out this line about a gift is also quite saddening - I guess, it's the thing that adds to Astarion's character making him a lesser pain in the ass. After all, he does feel grateful.
I really hope, it's just some experiment and later Larians will choose the best angles and won't skip really important dialogues!
