If you have no push ge-loven then no other NPCs ge-shoven.
I don't use the mechanic myself, but it is a mechanic that people frequently use in table top.
Diese Mechanik ist von der Sorte Nimm es oder lass es.
I've never played in a tabletop game where any, let alone all, of the following are true:
a) Shove is a Bonus Action
b) Shove is used anywhere close to the frequency it's seen in BG3. 10x less frequent
at most.c) Shove can push people >5 feet, or even >10 feet horizontally when off a cliff.
d) Cliffs are as prevalent as they are in BG3. 5x or more less frequent.
It's also not of a "take it or leave it type" because enemies can and will use it against you. Also against their own teammates to wake them up (unless that has been fixed).