What is it with people demanding Larian re-design the core engine of the game recently? The game has issues, yes, but you're basically asking them to scrap the game and recreate the it from the ground up using a different engine. It's an outrageous ask. I enjoy D&D, and play it on actual tabletops regularly, but Larian's interpretation of D&D 5e leaves a lot to be desired, and I have complaints of my own about D&D itself.
Pretty much the only thing that I agree with you on is the traps, not in the "get rid of them" sense, but in how awkward they are to handle, quicksave helps, but save-scumming traps isn't fun or fast. But this leads into a greater complaint that I have regarding dice rolling in general in BG3 and how I don't really like how it's been implemented in this game.
There are lots of extremely popular games that I have never played because I knew I wouldn't enjoy the core gameplay. But if I buy a game and I happen to not enjoy or like it's core gameplay, I do this thing I call "not playing the game" and "getting a refund" because giving feedback with your wallet has always been more effective at getting companies to pay attention to customer opinions than walls of text on forums.
