but since i dont see dificiulty of that roll, i never know wich would be more effective
I always assume that the difficulty class of every option is the same. I know it’s not always true, but without any info on the game’s part, picking the option with your PC’s highest modifier seems safe.
I understand the OP’s desire to focus on the content of the response rather than the value of associated modifiers. However, removing the info panels also hides whether PCs have situational advantage for a dialogue option.
