I do get what you're saying. But my issue is that both your examples are flawed. Darth Vader would definitely have high charisma, but all of it was gained as a result of experiences, not something he was born with. And with the hag, again if you were blind, then the hag's looks-and maybe its reputation since you might not know she's a hag-wouldn't necessarily affect you either. I get what you're saying, and ultimately it is just a thing where you have to suspend your disbelief, and I don't really care about it in the moment while I'm playing, but in principle, I'm just not a fan of the racial stat bonuses and I think a lot of other games have tackled this sort of thing in a better, more internally consistent manner so I'm less inclined to be forgiving of D&D in that regard.
