Hopefully this is a bug. Not a fan forced use of tadpole. I couldn't even use the sigil/stone/whatever to open it.
You're not forced. Like I did, you have a choice to tell SH, "Sorry. I can't find a way to open it.". Then you'll see her again by the crypt. It's not that big a deal if you don't give in to the dark side. That's part of why I think it's a good temptation. It's not "SH will literally die if you don't use the tadpole, Luke."
