Exactly wrong.
And you didn't play Kingmaker (or any of the other titles we typically talk about in these discussions, like Solasta etc) by your own admission, so not sure why you insist on pretending you have a detailed opinion about how they play.
I was agreeing with ExarchofJustice’s post in general about not liking timed quests even if my own experience of timed quests was from a different game.