I wouldn't say that people are being 'difficult' - They're expressing a distaste for how it's being handled at the moment, and suggesting things that would make it more palatable, that's all. By far a bigger problem is the way that the dreams themselves are invasive, creepy and, if you don't choose the head-over-heels dialogue choices, downright rapey... and yet, despite them being that way, everyone around you, including your character, acts like they were temping and appealing and seductive... and you absolutely cannot, in any way, act or suggest that they weren't or that you didn't find them so. There's a huge dissonance there, and if they fix that in a good way, then my complaints about building the daisy will be much reduced.
I completely agree. The way the dream person gropes you and keep on going physical even If you say No is very uncomfortable and I really can do without such rape fantasies in my games. It's the reason, I avoid using the tadpole ( with the exception of freeing SH).