lol, It's funny how in person, we don't take things people say literally, but somehow, online so many conversations comedown to "well, ACTUALLY". I have a feeling that non native language usage plays a part, especially on these forums, but it's funny how conversations online so often are a competition, not a discussion. It's more about "proving" someone wrong than actually trying to discuss the issue.
When someone expresses their opinion as the way things "should be," it's telling. Very telling. Anyone with a basic understanding of the English language knows that.
As for your non-native language comment, I assure you I have an idiomatic understanding of English. In fact, I would happily compare my degrees on the subject with yours.
Here's what's instructive: Say what you mean. Mean what you say.
