I'm interested in hearing your views on the situation. How do you respond to Nettie?
From your point of you, how does your choice fit on the alignment spectrum?
Personally,
I'm not playing an evil Tav (but a chaotic one). It seems ill-fitted to take an oath because I'm being blackmailed into doing so.
Also, while I don't mind using deception at times (which we can't do here technically), taking an oath when I know it's a lie (wyvern poison...not my 1st choice as last resort) is going against my personal codes. It's taking the deception game to far.
I usually pick the option "No. I'm not taking poison from a woman I can't trust."
Even though, it's not really about trust.
Edit :
I realize I made some arguments here that don't really reflect my views...I do find it hard to put down my thoughts on this matter. Maybe trying a little to hard to convince myself? Maybe I just don't know how to feel about the situation. Hence this post
