I still think it doesn't make sense because the dream lover is trying to tempt you to become the leader of his or her army and use your powers to become truly great and take over Baldur's Gate. This seems more like the absolute. Not only that but the more you use the powers that the dream lover gives you, the more you start to do weird transformations in Camp. It just really doesn't seem like the weapon is the dream lover to me.
I doubt it's the absolute.
Why would the absolute call you her chosen, grant you powers and awareness of your own tadpole, and then try and have you killed and turned into an unthinking drone. at the bridge. Another theory I have seen about the dream person, is that the dream person is Shar herself.
