As you please - The media persona the Swen projects, making no comment about the man himself of course but the 'persona' that he shows in media appearances - is a bully, plain and simple. I'm not going to go over it here and now, it's all discussed, and the red flags identified, in my other posts - have a read of the PFH synopsis posts, if you're actually interested in understanding where I'm coming from. It's not the point of this thread - just tangential to the comment about having to choose a small number of friends and lose the rest, 'just like in real life'.