I feel like those points don't and wont stop BG3 from ticking all 3 boxes for the vast majority of players. What you judge as "ridiculous" is understood by most as nothing more than typical gameplay interactions. It is ok to show exaggerated things in a fantasy video game, the suspension of disbeliefs bar is way higher in this case.
Even in this work in progress state, I have already seen plenty of people invested in the story, challenged by the game and often reaching a "catharsis" state after some exceptional events. Would balancing the few overpowered interactions or reworking the chain system improve the game? Sure! But the foundation is solid enough to already have a fantastic time. DoS2 has already show that and BG3 is its logical next step.
