Like BG3, every single conversation moves you towards sex in POE2. Every single one of them. You can't just talk to someone to learn about their lore without trying to fuck them. You had to actively try NOT to fuck them. I spit on this kind of crappy writing.
And that is poor writing. I'm sorry that you feel affinity towards it. I cringe to think that that's how people approach real life relationships. "oh, they talked to me, they must want to bang".
