I can't help but laugh looking at the raunchy frames from the Minthara romance thread. And I don't think that was the intent there.
I would like romance to be a part of the game but it really can't be comedy soft porn like this. Turning the companions down just to avoid these... scenes... would also feel wrong.
Seriously Larian... take your time building romantic developments and don't force these awkward "do you want to sleep with me tonight" choices on us at the first party if we haven't even flirted at all. Lae'zel is believable being so bluntly direct about it from out of the blue but the rest, not so much.
And the explicit (somewhat acrobatic, even) positions are 100% comedy. The game graphics and animation make it worse when you try to be too detailed. Please keep it to simple shots and leave the rest up to the player's imagination.
