So I have played a Paladin 2x

the First time I was devotion and my oath was broken when I failed to save the guy from being shoved in the spider pit... fine I get it I didn't protect a life

The second I was Oath of the ancients and I did save him from being shoved in. I healed him up when he got damaged even applied temp HP, but he insisted on fighting and of course he got one shot by Boss Ragzlin cause his stupid ass decided to attack him. That broke my oath as well...

how in the ever fucking loving hells is him getting himself killed by making a dumb decision my fucking fault? I didn't fail to protect him he was just a dumb shit! So why is my Oath broken over his stupidity?!