There's a whole spectrum available between "No nod to even the existence of sex" and "Full on porn scenes" and I think it's unfair to equate not wanting the latter with wanting the former. I also take issue with the request for having an option to remove or tone down the sex and vulgarity being described as wanting a 'sanitized' product. Again, there's a difference between the two desires. I've not

Originally Posted by Garold_izAravii
What is the mature and healthy way to approach it? You are not the first person who uses these words. What do they even mean?

Regarding this question, I think there's actually a good answer here. I think that answer lies in how the narrative itself deals with its contents. Does it actually call on the viewer/reader/consumer to think about what's going on? Does the game just HAVE sex, or does it deal with sex? Deal with it in the sense of characters reacting to it, having thoughts and feelings about it. Or is it just there in a way that could be theoretically excised without the point of the narrative changing? For example, I'll point you to the dragon age games, not for sex, but for racism. I'd say that those games deal with racism. Whereas so far, Baldur's Gate 3 mostly just HAS racism. The tieflings are a plot thread that could expand further into something that also DEALS WITH racism, but so far I don't think it quite gets there.