Minthara's scene in an interesting example because Drow society is one of the few times sexual politics are overt in the setting, It's probably been more than a year since I last saw it, but I think I remember her attitude to you taking into account your sex.
I can’t remember it being explored in BG3 (so far) so even if it is appropriate for the setting, Larian hasn’t done anything with it so far.
