Then this is the 1 billion dollar question, if you know it isnt real... what is the problem ?... what happened in BG1 wasent real, exactly as it wasent in BG2 and now in BG3 it is all a story a fantasy that depict everything from heaven and hell and inbetween... but as the the years gone by everything in these games get more grafical... every single thing... and the problem this entire thread has, that no matter how your reasoning is, it eludes to some not being able to treat certain things as fantasy, and start to adress it as something real...
Aurora, I think your point is taken by everyone. This is true that people in our society are much more accustomed to violence than to sex. It is weird, but it is true. You can not change this by repeating your points over and over. They are valid, but it does not change people's feeling. A lot of people actually complained not about the fact this game has explicit scenes, but about their quality. So, everything became more graphical, but not graphical enough. This game pushes boundaries, and I have seen a lot of people who are excited about it, even if Larian makes it clumsy. I am happy to see that other people like you also believe in Larian and are ready to give them a chance, but this does not mean the same argument about graphics and the fact that it is not real can persuade everyone. Not at this point in humanities time, at least