Ah, sorry, no. My point was that I believe the background as to why these options don't exist is of religious nature. I can't really remember enough about most of DA:I to gauge Dorian's stance on having children. What's in my head is just this big conflict because he doesn't want to marry the person chosen for him. While I do find it believeable someone may just run away, his family never made a move to offer an alternative. It's all this or all that.