I'm fine with it. They can include whatever they want, so long as they don't try to force me to interact with it, if I don't want to. As it stands, it's optional, meaning I can completely ignore it, but if NPCs start trying to employ "misgendering" or similar, then I'm going to ask for a refund. I don't play video games to be reminded that some people think that their world view is the only one that matters. I play them to get away from that shit. I neither want, or need, a game to beat me over the head with it. Existing in character creation doesn't beat me over the head with it. I'm fine with it. I'm not required to use the features, so I don't care.
I absolutely loved Dorian. I've never done the romance, because it doesn't appeal to me, but his being gay didn't matter in the slightest. Krem didn't bother me at all, but I was impressed to find out that he was voiced by Jennifer Hale, because I never would have guessed. I'm not looking at their sexuality, or preferences, or identities. I'm looking at what kind of character they are. The character that I hated the most in the Dragon Age series was Alistair, a straight white male, because of how he reacts when you go to Redcliffe and are legit surprised at his reveal in the cutscene just before you get there.
So by all means, be as "inclusive" as they choose to be, so long as they include the option to ignore it.
