Modded Skyrim VR is really the best RPG experience you can get in gaming right now, IMO. Nothing else compares. Exceptions obviously for when you really don't want to be in VR, and just want to chill and lay back with snacks and play a slower paced cRPG.
Question of taste. I really tried and bought Oblivion (Elder Scrolls IV) and Skyrim (Elder Scrolls V the later one when got 10 euro discount price). Even with mod that made all women nude it was not good enough.
I have never got into liking graphics. Well and then top of that open world sandbox is not for me at least not Elder Scrolls. It is nice Skyrim supports VR and such an old game as Skyrim has to begin with low system requirements though VR might increase system requirements.
It is apples vs oranges subjective taste. I understand that for you it is the best game, but for me it is not even good game enough said.