Let's recall that most of us here are in favour of choices and options that give everyone what they want; GM and I, despite being on opposite ends of the spectrum for what we like in this particular case, are both in the camp here that wants options in settings to choose our level of censorship for such elements of the game.
I think that's well said. It's wouldn't a difficult to implement a "fade to black" setting and, while my views are closer to Niara's than GM's on this issue I admire GM's ability to talk about these issues while maintaining a civil tone.
*picks up handfuls of daisies, throws them around the room*