I bet it is. If the 'Romancing Gale' debug thread is anything to go my, triggering his death scene is part of trying to get his finicky romance online. Cool to see he's the most romanced. I think I blow past his affinity checks because we're usually so simpatico, that I get what amounts to friend-zoned most of the time.
Gale’s quest and romance triggers are still something of a mystery and there’s still stuff to fix here. But my patch 9 checks reveal we don’t (any more?)
need to trigger his death scene to get the romance even if we blow past the early approval increases. Though it does sometimes seem to move things along a little faster, so it’s understandable if people are still doing it.
I still find I have to long rest more than I’d otherwise need to in order to get the romance arc to play out in time to spend the night at the party, though it is possible to get his Mystra and loss scenes (which can include expressing mutual romantic interest) after the party. There’s nowhere to go after that in EA, but my hope is that in the full game Gale’s romance will actually be a slower burn which would avoid needing to long rest spam, and also would make more narrative sense to me.
Apologies that this is a bit off topic, but I’m hopefully saving some alternative universe Gales’ lives by reassuring folk he doesn’t need to die to progress his quest!