What choices make the most sense when playing as a druid?

1. The refugee quest in the Grove, the option to kill Kaga is still available, what to do in this case? Kill her and get exp points? And what will happen if we convince her not to side with the druids of shadows, will the quest be counted anyway or will it fail?

2. Owlbear's Lair: Is it more logical for a druid not to kill the beast at all and not send absolute neophytes there? Or can you lure them there and convince the bear to attack them? What to choose? I don't need a spear, I'm only interested in the exp points for the quest.

3. Quest with the theft of the statue of Silvanus, there is an opportunity to steal it even after the unique phrase that it is a sacred symbol. And after the refusal, Mol says that we do not have balls to do that. Would it be better to just not take the quest?