I hear you loud and clear, my friend.
I find it interesting to try to make combat more fluid, but it's the perfect recipe for chaos when playing with impatient people...
Maybe that's my problem...
My party is made up of some DIABLO players who have never experienced RTWP, so they want to click on creatures all the time LOL!
Here is where I find your brilliance:
So I have learned to keep an eye on the Turn bar above and I will always go last if I am grouped on initiative.
There's nothing better than waiting for the anxious ones and LEROY JENKINS to unleash their clicks and then playing my turn in the tranquility that I like, without any rush.
Or simply finding a group of patient players, right?
Anyway, I still think it's fair to have an option to disable this even if it's only in the room creation screen.