making pansexual is the correct approach. hated many games that i'm forced to romance xxx and need to be either male or female. its a win-win. why do you feel exclusive that this character in game should and must be exclusive to only your gender? you get to romance her/him anyway. just care less about what are the companions sexuality.
I agree with you, but I'm more afraid that with all the Tav romance focus, possibly romances between Companions and / or Companions and NPCs have been neglected.