One could argue that they're desperate for any sort of help and so are willing to debase themselves somewhat for that. And they're tieflings, they know all about facing unfair racism so it doesn't surprise me that they're slower to cast similar judgement, they know better. Especially since I don't believe they've personally encountered drow before.
This would be very good argument for a Drow that is actually helping them ...
The problem is, no matter how much permutations Larian make, and no matter how much they advertise that our decisions are important for the game ... you simply cant be any other.
Even if you insult them in their face ...
Even if you steal from them ...
Even if you litteraly murder their own kin in front of their eyes ...
They still concider you "one of those rare good exceptions". -_-
And that is incredibly frustrating.
It also makes sense to me that Astarion wouldn't insult you to your face. We're the nominal leader and he's making at least a token effort to stay in our good graces.
I would totally accept this argument ...
If there werent several (maybe even dozen) of other examples allready in EA, where Astarion insults you to your face quite lightly and with no care at all.
