People hate Aerie, people love Aerie. The same with Anomen, Jaheria, Minsc and most everyone else. And you'll find that range of opinion for BG3 too. Without experiencing it for yourself I'm not sure what we can do to help you.
Also take into account that at this point we've been running through the same material, and character beats, that some of us have grown to resent them all a little.
