I was wondering if you are playing a Paladin and a party member goes off while your shopping or viewing their conversation and breaks something from your oath if you become an oath breaker some examples are: When facing the Owlbear in the nest, kill the mother and then the Owlbear Cub.
Kill Pandima, the Tiefling paralyzed at the storage shack at the Druid Grove
Helping Mayrina revive her husband after dealing with the hag.
Freeing Sazza in the Druid Cove. betraying the Tieflings when rescuing Lae'zel, betraying the goblins within the Blighted Village as well as the Shattered Sanctum.
Allowing Arka to kill the caged goblin Sazza.
Torture Liam at the Shattered Sanctum. As the party dad that often finds myself buying camp supplies to make sure the whole party gets a full meal each night, I often find myself with Chaotic Neutral gremlins that will want to help the goblins take the druid grove or do other shenanigans and am worried that I might be forced into oathbreaker if I witness another party member breaking something in my oath but I will not force them to do something they don`t want to do after all I took the oath not my party.