I never suggested getting married inside a game.
I only gave a metaphor for comparing real life identifications when it is you and when it is others. Read my post carefully please.
My original post suggested an Optional romantic line related to a reunion with a childhood friend the enforces the psychological feeling of being home. Home is not just a house or a castle; it is friends, neighbours, relatives and roots. It is the place and people you are ready to die while defending. It is the place and people you wish to hear their cheers and admirations when you return triumphant and wealthy.
The issue is not whether it is O.K. or fine if the hero was homeless or ugly, the issue is what is more rewarding.
You may wish to custom order an RPG for beggars, but I prefer to play the role of a Pharaoh who owns all the land and people and call it home.
Cheers.
