Can you be kind in this game? Yes. However this is NOT a fairy tale fantasy. If you are kind to others dont expect them and the world to love you back and all is good and happily ever after. This is realistic high magic fantasy. If you give someone your heart they could stomp on it, or could be kind to you initially then ghost you. Or you could be kind to someone and they can take it as weakness and take advantage of you. So the simple answer to your question is yes but the more correct answer to your question is what is your expectation around kind.
