Larian doesn't want us to be playing good, kind, noble characters in BG3 because that isn't their thing. So even in situations where they're giving you good/kind/noble options, you can tell they don't want to do it but are feeling compelled to do it, and so they make those options silly/lame/pathetic.
I get this vibe listening to them talk about the game and from PFH stuff.
I do not get this vibe when I played Early Access though. I was satisfied with my mostly good run of the game.
Something I am hoping for is that once the full game is released a few people here in the forum who I can trust will choose to play a completely good run through the game and then provide a report on how things went on their run. That would make a big difference for me in deciding whether I want to play this game or not.
I will definitely be playing a chaotic good playthrough, helping everyone I can (but also not afraid to steal from the rich/hurt the powerful if I think they're taking advantage of the less privileged), and trying to convert SH, and whomever to a more positive worldview, etc, so I'll be able to give some feedback on that sort of playthrough.
edit: Oh, and my first playthrough will NOT be the Dark Urge