I don't think downloading a mod that already exists is too much to ask. Where if multiplayer needs to make a change we would all have to have that mod which would require a lot more work.
If it takes 1 woman 9 moths to birth a baby ... How long will it take to 9 womans?
This is same situation. If download a mod for me to use is "not too much to ask". Then you all can to the same and its aswell "not too much to ask" ...
I have literally heard this fallacious argument 5 times in the last week. It's a line of illogical thinking that collapses as soon as you apply any systemic organizational system to the model. it's nonsense. I would invite you to not repeat it further.