If no matter about race bonuses, its logical then count all abilities, proficiences, skills, cantrips, speed, etc in points. And every player take same amount of that points in begining. And construct its character in this points limit like lego. So, after completing buying, take race and gender like ordinary skin, take choosen class and game begins! All in equal position. No one is offended.
I don't think you're engaging with the opposing viewpoint honestly here.
