Thank you to the vast majority of posters here who are contributing thoughtfully and considerately on topics that can be sensitive and in some cases touch on folks' real lives.
I'm just going to give a quick reminder to anyone who needs it that while it's okay to disagree it's not okay to be dismissive, it's not okay to just keep repeating the same points rather than agreeing to disagree, and it is best to avoid making wider statements about sexuality, womens' preferences or sexism and stick to what is directly relevant.
Thanks again, all!
Thanks Red Queen
My original post was a tiny bit tongue-in-cheek but the lack of good aligned options was something I had noticed when I was thinking on the whole bear sex scene. I am also glad this conversation hasn't gone off the rails
