I've hit a frustrating point in my *second* Astarion-romance playthrough. It is past the camp party, and I had the scar and sex scene... but not the follow-up scenes that have him explain the scars more.
After getting stuck at that same point in an earlier playthrough, I had it explained to me that Tav needs to be True Soul to advance that post camp romance storyline... and I would do camp dialogue with him asap.
..but apparently, I must be missing *more* triggers. I am unsure only about whether I had his "starlight scene" early on.
It is frustrating how unfree and inflexible the pathway to those scenes are, and how many impossible to know triggers you have to hit (and often can't because of Shadowheart's camp dialogue taking precedent.
*sigh* So... anyone have a long and EXCAT list of ALL triggers, dialogues, when to kill bloody Shadowheart to finally get ALL of Astarion's possible scar scenes, and excat order....?
And also, just to keep my sane... has there been word from Larian that they know, care and will do something about those silly dialogue triggers at launch?