So if you play as a Dark Urge paladin you will have the tadpole, the urge, Daisy/guardian and the Oath-Breaker police all vying for your compliance to their way of doing things. Holy mental gymnastics, Batman.
It might be simpler to just play as Origin Astarion, create a custom party and roll with Curlylocks and the Three Bears.
Origen shadowheart has shar. Whoever is behind her glowy powers, the box, and daisy
