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11 years old may not be ready for some of the sex options... just putting that out there as there are some iffy scenes like killing kids to get the drow into bed
apart from that the 16G ram is where i would spend money before updating the gpu... the rx580 isn't trash but if you have the cash i'd double the Ram [at least] then get a 3090 for the vram. Great cards
If playing multiplayer and we don't have any of the origin characters though there really isn't any way to my knowledge to have sex scenes is what i was thinking. I don't think you can romance mercenaries, only the origin characters. Basically that should be a way to bypass that. Killing the druid grove is a choice, but she probably would choose to kill the kids in the druid camp.. though i can steer her from choices by just telling her she isn't allowed to pick certain choices to avoid it, but even then you have to choose to sleep with her even if you kill the the druid grove if not mistaken to get to that point. Also i have set groundwork that if i say she can't pick options she has to steer from it because i told her the game is meant for 18 and older and there is content that i may rule for her to steer from, and that she must comply. That is why I might go through the game once over before she does so at least in the main story i will know when things are coming up.
The gore isn't an issue for her. I even told her about the dark urge and the scene shown at last panel from hell.... where he fantasies about cutting of Gale's hand , and then realizes he actually has done so. she thought that sounded funny . she isn't a girly girl, she is more a tomboy. she is comfortable with scenes like in Jurassic world where she watched people getting eaten. In my experience kid's games in dnd tend to be much more violent and bloody then adult tabletop dnd games for a reason. She also has played act 1 already in early access version. I agree with you there is content that i have seen in panels from hell and such she should avoid, but gory, or creepy isn't gonna be an issue for her, its mostly the sex scene stuff which not having origin character as NPCs should help there.
I will have my own single player game as well going on as well and probably will try to romance shadowheart. I have in early access tried and sucessfully been able to romance Lae'zel once, and ironically as playing as a gith going through it playing evil to try that path, but only the once, have tried other times not as evil, but more neutral and never worked out .. and the reward for the one time i did .. got message cutscene isn't available. lol In the table top version i don't like playing good characters like a Dudley Doright kind of character, that is why i in the past before 5e avoided playing a paladin. my favorite paladins are like oath of conquest and then secondly oathbreaker. Most games don't allow evil characters either, so generally play as something neutral , most commonly as true neutral or chaotic neutral, but the most fun games i ever played were once where the big bad offered us the choice to side with em, and the party chose to do so.... well all but the tank ... and he died. lol I play true neutral as there main focus is survival, they will do whatever it takes to survive, good or evil, lawful or chaotic. and chaotic neutral as a merc, but a merc that understands he can achieve more and go for bigger bounty if working with a group, so he maybe greedy, but his type of greedy is group minded.